relationships

Funny thing about relationships, it takes a lot of ups and downs and angst to hash things out and determine just what each partner needs or wants or expects from the other, and if those things are even compatible. Sometimes there is even some confusion about whether the relationship even IS. The bond, connection, attraction or even commitment felt by one is not necessarily returned in kind. I guess everybody wants to feel special, to think that what they share with someone is unique. It can be a bit demoralizing and disappointing when the realization hits that they are on the level of the group instead of standing one step up the ladder of intimacy.